Humanity Should Always Be The Priority

The house your Dad built, who is living there now?

What makes you think the ones you are building now your children will live there?

How are you sure they will live in Nigeria. Ten years now, the house will be out of fashion.

Stop killing yourself.

This wife of yours that is pushing you for greener pasture, might not mourn you for a year before she start with your friend just to keep her little Secret before the time is ripe.

Your husband might not even mourn you for 6 months, before your friend will move in.

Stop treating God’s treasures (Humans) like trash.

Those children of yours you want to train in Harvard, may just like to be a DJ or a musician that SSCE dropouts are also doing successfully.

The day you die, your account officer will reduce your money to ten percent. You are not alive because of what you have, you’re alive to serve God and humanity.

Your house may be old, but the school bag or books you bought for another man’s child will continue to grow.

This is not a call to mediocre.

Vanity is hidden in time.

Humanity Should Always Be The Priority.!!!

Have a wonderful day ❤

Negative effects of masturbation

Ma$turbation can actually be good for your health, both mentally and physically. .

Do you know that it also has a very bad effect on your Brain. It is proved that most people that ma$turbate excessively often has short-term memory.

Most of the people that ma$turbates excessively usually:

1. Feel weak and lazy

2. They often procrastinate

3. They find it very difficult to concentrate

This is as a result of continuous remembrance of the pictures you imagine in your brain which can lead to the one, both or all of the above mentioned.

One of the most dangerous effect of ma$turbation is that it can lead people to rape. You know when they ma$turbation, sometimes they don’t feel satisfied. If eventually they see something or someone to increase their satisfaction they will act immediately without second thought

Delay in marriage

Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.

  1. I’m too young for that.
  2. Who cares about marriage.
  3. I’m focused on my books.
  4. I want to gather some money first.
  5. Marriage is full of problems.
    These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.
    But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.
    No problem, God is watching you.
    At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;
  6. How far?
  7. Don’t you have any one yet?
  8. Are you not planning to get married?
  9. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married?
  10. Don’t you know you are getting old?
    But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.
    With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,
  11. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
  12. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
  13. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.
  14. They are not even ready to marry yet.
  15. Well, God knows the best. I believe in God.
    See oooh…!, she has started putting her blame on God. “God’s time is the best” OK, I agree for argument sake.
    At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.
    They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.
    You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don’t want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.
    No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
    My sister, it matters a lot.
    Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that’s how it feels like in marriage too.
    Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
    That’s why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.
    At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
  16. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?
  17. Is it not getting too late for you?
    You will hear her asking you some silly questions like…
  18. Are you God?
  19. Or do you want to marry me?
  20. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?
  21. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?
  22. God knows the best for everyone please.
    At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she’s a Christian, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
    If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:
  23. My brother, I’m not like them.
  24. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
  25. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
  26. I can’t do anything with you without my parents consent.
    Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.
    You don’t expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.
    Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.
    Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 39yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.
    Everything in life has its own season and time.
    There’s no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven’t been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.
    Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don’t disturb the peace of God. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.
    Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies? Does it mean there no men but only boys?
    Thousands of working class ladies are out there confirmed single. Your Master’s of PhD is ZERO without a husband.
    Yes, Education is key but don’t neglect a marriage proposal all in the name of your studies. Both of you are matured enough to wait if you’re serious of getting married.
    It’s never too late to ask for forgiveness or have a second thought of mind. For our God is a merciful and gracious Lord. Change your mind.

Mathematical letter to his charming goddess.

Dear My luv… I may not be good
with words because my English is
not fluent, but What I feel deep
inside my heart persuades me to
express myself mathematically.
Every time I see u, u
simultaneously divide my life into
two equations. Because my
feelings for u cross-multiply on a
daily basis, u inspire me to be
greater than zero. Your smile
keeps me in touch with the
special angles of my heart. You
make me feel relaxed on the X-
axis where Y is equals to zero.
When I come across u, I feel like
I’m turning like a parabola and
meet you on the turning point
where I can utter 3 words to you.
Words that describe the mid point
of my heart. Without u my heart
is like a semi circle.
Because u stole the other half. I
will appreciate if we could come
together and solve for x so that
we both stop to be vertically
opposite and start to be
corresponding angles. I know u
are intelligent enough to
understand that when it comes to
trigonometrical world, because we are all
positive in the
first quadrant

your love, infobestz.



After I had cleaned and tidied up my house, my brother phoned me and said, “My wife and I are coming to visit you.”

I went to my kitchen to prepare something for them, but I could not find anything available to serve them.

After much thought and search, all I could lay my hands on were a few oranges. Therefore, I made two cups of cold juice immediately.

When my brother and his wife arrived I was shocked to see his mother-in-law with them, who came to visit us for the first time.

So I served the two cups of juice to his wife and her mother, and I placed a cup of water in front of my brother, saying, ‘I know that you like 7Up.’

He drank a sip and realised that it was water.

And suddenly his mother-in-law said, I’m feeling for 7Up. Please give it to me!

Here I was, baffled and caught up with embarrassment.

But my brother saved me by saying to her, ‘I will bring you a clean glass from the kitchen.’

After a while we heard the sound of a glass breaking in the kitchen. He then came back and told his mother-in-law, ‘Sorry, it fell from my hands and the glass broke. But no problem, I will go to the shop to get another one.

His mother-in-law refused and said, “There is no need for that. It was not meant for me anyway.”

Eventually when they were going, my brother bid me farewell and placed some money into my hand and said, “Don’t forget to clean the kitchen of the 7Up so that ants do not come.” And he bid me farewell with a smile and love.

In this way, my brother considered my feelings and concealed my shortcoming.

When you’re in a position, use it to lift others.
Running anyone down will never make you better!

This is a very touching story.
Let me ask, 👇
How do you treat your

Do you cover-up their shame or you expose them?

A food for thought!


A friend told me this personal story of his. I’m sure he will remember if he comes across this post because he is on my friend’s list.

His words….. Many years ago I was working as a clerk at a faculty in one popular university in Nigeria, then I saw an advert for NDA (Nigeria Defence Academy), I have always loved to go to NDA so I applied, submitted my form and was called for admission examination.

I had to travel to Kaduna all the way from Osun State, I have a distant uncle that was resident there then. I wrote a letter(no telephone) to my uncle that I was coming to sit for an exam in Kaduna and would love to stay in their house.

I didn’t get a reply to my letter even as my departure date was approaching. I became so worried because I needed to go anyway, as I was talking to a colleague in the office concerning my fear of where to stay, our office cleaner who was a Hausa man overheard us and in his broken English interjected that he knew someone right inside NDA.

Who could he know there? Is it not a cleaner like himself, I unintentionally said it out to his hearing. “Oga no o, the commandant op za NDA na ma classmate and ma priend”. In his bad handwriting, he scribbled the commandant’s name on a piece of paper. “Just mention my name por am, him go helf you.”

I reluctantly collected the paper from him, not because I intended to make use of it but because I didn’t want him to feel bad.

The next day, I set out on this long journey by train from Osogbo. I got to Kaduna the next day towards evening. Upon getting there, I went straight to my uncle’s house only to find out that they had relocated from that place and no one knew their new address. I became stranded and it was getting late.

Around after 7pm, I made up my mind to give my cleaner’s contact a shot. I got to the gate of NDA and mentioned the name I was given. To my utmost surprise, everyone in that bit, recognized the name and one person was promptly detailed to take me to his office.

I gave the paper where Kabiru wrote his name and that of his friend to the secretary who took it inside. On sighting the paper, the commandant shouted from the office and followed the secretary outside to usher me in. “Where do you know Kabiru?” “He’s my colleague in the office, Sir,” I answered.
“Where is he? How is he? Hope he’s doing well?” This man was asking me many questions in an obvious excitement.

The look on his face confirmed to me that Kabiru was his beloved friend. He asked me what I came to do in Kaduna and I said it was for the NDA exams. “Wow, do you have where to sleep?” “No, sir.” He immediately called someone to take me to his house. On getting to the house, I was lavishly entertained.

This man came late in the night and he woke me up and took me up on tutorials for the next day’s exams. After the exams, he personally drove me to the park the next day.

When I got back to the campus, I began to look at Kabiru with a different eyes. How on earth does this man know such a powerful person? Needless to say, my name was number four on the list when the results came out.

Friends, I put it to you today that relationship is a currency. Every man needs another man to move up and that man may be the neighbour you look down on, maybe the taxi driver you so despise or even the house help you think is a nobody today.

Relationship is a stream of income. Everything in life actually reproduces on the basis of relationship. Those we know in life matter. Most of us are talented but we need a cupbearer that will tell Pharaoh that there’s a Joseph that can interpret dreams.

There are some heights you may never get to in life until someone tells someone about you. Therefore, shut the door of relationships gently. You may need to use it tomorrow.

Let us take our relationships seriously. Even if you meet online, don’t look down on anyone. You never can tell which of the relationships is your own key to success.

Have a Blessed day.

32. Precautions for your son.

  1. Never shake a man’s hand sitting down.
  2. Don’t enter a pool by the stairs.
  3. The man at the BBQ Grill is the closest thing to a king.
  4. In a negotiation, never make the first offer.
  5. Request the late check-out.
  6. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
  7. Hold your heroes to a higher standard.
  8. Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.
  9. Play with passion or not at all…
  10. When shaking hands, grip firmly and look them in the eye.
  11. Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.
  12. If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.
  13. Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.
  14. You marry the girl, you marry her family.
  15. Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.
  16. Experience the serenity of traveling alone.
  17. Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.
  18. Never turn down a breath mint.
  19. A sport coat is worth 1000 words.
  20. Try writing your own eulogy. Never stop revising.
  21. Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.
  22. Eat lunch with the new kid.
  23. After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.
  24. Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.
  25. Manners maketh the man.
  26. Give credit. Take the blame.
  27. Stand up to Bullies. Protect those bullied.
  28. Write down your dreams.
  29. Always protect your siblings (and teammates).
  30. Be confident and humble at the same time.
  31. Call and visit your parents often. They miss you.
  32. The healthiest relationships are those where you’re a team; where you respect, protect, and stand up for each other.


  1. If you speak too much, you will lie.
  2. If you think too much,you will be depressed..
  3. If you cry too much, you will lose your sight.
  4. If you love too much, you will be lost.
  5. If you care too much,you will be taken for granted.

6.If you play too much, You will not be taken serious often.

7.If you trust too much, you will be betrayed.

8.If you work too much, You will die of stress.

9.If you eat too much, You will be obsessed.

10.If you sleep too much, You will be idle.

  1. If you spend too much, You will have no future.

12.If you wear make up too much, You will lose your beauty.

13.If you look too much, You will lose your focus.

14.If you pursue life too much, you will lose everything.


  • When you pray too much, You will have everything.

*When you are patients too much, you will have the whole world.

*When you invest too much, You will have your future guaranteed.

*When you let go too much, you will have peace of mind.

*When you are careful too much, you will be saved of many evils.

*When you serve God too much, you will receive unlimited and unspeakable reward and testimony.


NPower Online CBT Test. Read This Information Immediately if you have not written your online CBT test.

The President Buhari-led government, collectively with the Ministry of Humanitarian Affairs has these days launched a new enrolment Npower portal for all Batch C candidates. According to the Federal Ministry, the new enrolment portal, which operates below the National Social Investment Management System (NASIMS), used to be designed to make superb transparency, institutional reminiscence and dynamic have an affect on evaluation of the N-Power cluster.

It is no longer a fairytale that NPOWER have officially invited people that utilized for closing yr BATCH C Program to log on to the website and write their CBT test. Many candidates are ignorant of how the portal operates, If you have been attempting to write your take a look at then again however it doesn’t exhibit up then do not fear this article is here to assist you. All quintessential records wanted used to be as soon as gathered with the aid of one of the candidates who truely done taking his CBT test. The following is the manner for this:

1. Kindly visit

2. Click on log in

3. Go to forgot password

4. Enter the electronic mail you used for the NPOWER software final 12 months and send.

6. After putting your password, log into the internet site as soon as greater and log in with your email and new password. Then replace your documents and click on on take test.

Also Note the following;

2. If you did now not get keep of a hyperlink in your email, wait for a couple of hours, it takes a little time to get the mail attimes.

3. Don’t take the check except updating your data on the portal.

Wishing you all the best. Feel free to comment. We’ll assist you with any questions you have. Good success once again. 

Good news to those that applied for Npower batch C.

The ministry of humanitarian affairs had earlier made a publications that the Npower batch c has been launched.

As shown by the below photo which was taken from twitter.

Meanwhile it is advisable that they prepare for a test which will be conducted for the respective batch C applicants.

More screenshot below.

As reported by nneka ikem she said Npower batch c to be launch to on the NSIP_NG management system platform which is NASIMS.

Therefore it a good news for the applicants of Npower batch c.

To this very end the Npower batch C has just been launched. And to all batch C applicants should take note of the new development by the ministry of humanitarian affairs.

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